I’m driving. The Tennessee mountains tower in the distance. The hills are so green they appear blue. The sky is so sunny it hurts your eyes.
I am listening to WSM 650 AM, traveling 55 mph on backroads. They’re playing old country. “Whispering” Bill Anderson is singing “The Lord Knows I’m Drinking.” My father loved this tune.
Last night, I sang on the Grand Ole Opry. Before my performance, 85-year-old Bill Anderson performed. He was exiting the stage as I was entering. Before they announced me, I shook his hand and I was quivering. I told him I grew up listening to his music alongside my father. I almost started to cry.
He said, “Thank you, son. Is your daddy here tonight?”
I looked into the rafters of the theater. “Yessir. I’d like to believe he is.”
He just smiled.
And right now, I’m thinking about all this while driving on this winding highway. I’m winding through thickets of black gums, live oaks, sycamores, and conflagrations of other Tennessean trees.
Tennessee trees don’t grow the same as in other states. These trees don’t just grow straight up and down. They grow sideways, downways, upways, rightways, wrongways, and everywhichways. They swallow everything, growing so close together they resemble a head of giant broccoli.
I see a barbecue-shack-slash-beer-joint in the distance. I pull over. The door dings upon my entrance. A radio is playing.
It’s not yet noon, but there is an old man at the bar, getting an early start on his day. An army of empty Budweiser bottles sits at his elbow. He is playing scratch-offs, trying his level best to make Cooter Brown look like an amateur.
His words are rounded on the corners when he speaks.
“Where you from?” he asks.
“Alabama.”
“First time in Tennessee?”
“No, sir.”
He nods and goes back to his scratch-offs. “What brings you here?”
“Work.”
“What kinda work you do?”
“I play music. I tell stories.”
“Are you a guitar player?”
“Not really. I’m a guitar owner.”
I order a barbecue sandwich. The waitress asks if I want a beer, but it’s too early for me. I go with a sweet tea. The tea is immobilizingly cold on a summer day. And sweet enough to break your jaw.
“Where’d you play last night?” the old man asks.
“You wouldn’t believe me if I told you.”
“Try me.”
“The Grand Ole Opry.”
The old man thinks about this for a second. Then he laughs. He leans over and I can smell his breath. You wouldn’t want to light a match within 12 feet of this man.
“Nice try,” he says. “But you can’t bull-[expletive] a bull-[expletiver].”
I guess not.
But it’s not bull. It’s real. Last night actually happened. Last night, I stood upon the same floorboards where Hank and Loretta and Johnny and George and Porter and Ernest and Dolly once stood.
And when I finished singing, Whispering Bill Anderson was waiting for me in the wings. When I saw him, you could have knocked me over with a guitar pick.
I couldn’t believe Mister Anderson was waiting for ME. He had watched my entire performance. Whispering Bill Anderson. Whispering “Freaking” Bill Anderson watched me perform.
Mister Anderson could have retreated backstage to his dressing room after his performance. He could have removed his shiny red blazer and white patent leather shoes. He could have changed into his civvies and gone home. He could have acted like the big-time star he is. But he didn’t.
The wizened Opry performer stayed to exchange words with a young, redheaded guitar owner.
When I walked off stage, Bill Anderson was waiting for me, a wide smile on his face. In his frail hand, he took mine. He squeezed slightly. The old man said four words. “You did it, son.”
And I wept, of course. Because it’s been a long time since anyone called me that.
4:33 am (GA time). Gus is barking his ever-loving head off so I had to get up and put him out where, at the least, I won't have to hear it. I gave up going back to sleep so I took the last bit of my vodka & Fresca from last night to computer to see what the world has been doing. And the first thing I see is you, being all big and professional, modest and doing what you love. I recalled you were invited back. Most of the time when you "go back again," it's less. The newness of being up there, on the stage, in the spotlight, can't be duplicated, but man, it was special, wasn't it? You're not a one-shot event, ole Sean at the Opry. This time, for sure, you're daddy was listening to every word and declaring to every angel he could drag withing earshot, " That's my boy! Listen!" Son, you did good. We're all that proud to know you.
Bill Anderson is a national treasure. A prolific songwriter himself he’s not retreated to the background collecting royalty checks. Rather, much of his life has been committed to seeing other songwriters and singers get their place in the sun too. BA is a fellow encourager, like you. Humble too. I’m glad he stayed for you, much respect to BA.
God bless you both.