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Bill in Tennessee's avatar

I once read (and I cannot remember the source, but it was from someone who clinically died and had a near-death experience) that dying was like taking off a pair of very tight shoes, and that the life that awaits us is sheer bliss and love. I have held onto that thought for years now, especially as my wife and I get older.

I also read somewhere that the phrase "Fear not" (or some variation of that) appears in the Bible over 360 times, one for each day of the year. So I must fear not. This life here is a schoolroom, I just hope I have learned all the lessons I came here to learn.

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Carol Ham's avatar

Dear Sean- thank you for this moving post. I lost my husband 1 year ago today and this gave me such peace. Thank you, my heart is full! ❤️❤️❤️

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Margaret's avatar

Carol, I am sorry for your loss of your husband. I'm sure his memory is a blessing for you.

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Cheryl Brown's avatar

Carol, I am so sorry for the loss of your beloved. May his memory continue to be a blessing to you.....

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Bill's avatar

John 14:1–3 (NIV)

“Do not let your hearts be troubled. You believe in God; believe also in me. My Father’s house has many rooms; if that were not so, would I have told you that I am going there to prepare a place for you? And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back and take you to be with me that you also may be where I am.”

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Carol M.'s avatar

I know this is a Deep Column, but my favorite line: “Dogs do not wake up and ask ‘do I have adequate life insurance?’ “🤣🐶😇✝️ God bless us, everyone ❣️

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Barbara Ashburn's avatar

And I rather liked God's reply at the end.

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don ortolano's avatar

this brings to mind the lyrics of an old , wonderful hymn;

🎵When we all get to Heaven, what a day of rejoicing that will be….🎵

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Robert Howard's avatar

Thank you for a beautiful message Sean!! I've lost 2-sons and I pray daily that they are soaring the heavens, happy and knowing how much they are loved from this end. And of course, my mom and dad/s and the host of smiling Dalmatian dogs!

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Julie RN's avatar

I love that image of “Soaring the Heavens!”

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Kerrie's avatar

Sean! I’ve noticed a shift in your writings, since the Camino walk! It’s wonderful how you, now, are so blatant in professing your belief in the Lord Jesus Christ. Your columns reach untold numbers & now you’re speaking the truths of the Lord reaching hearts, souls and minds for Christ.

May the Lord bless & keep you & make his face shine upon you as you continue your journey in this life. I look forward to meeting you in that great crowd of witnesses! You’ve got this kiddo!

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Shirlea's avatar

Amen and Amen! Sean, I truly believe that you are meant to be alive and writing “for such a time as this.”

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Thea McGinnis's avatar

Be not afraid…but let’s not rush. I plan to be late for my funeral…

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Marilyn's avatar

An incredible post. I cannot find the right words to express my feelings. Praise God!

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Zelda Nichols's avatar

When my time comes I pray it will be this way as I cross the Rainbow Bridge to see all my beloved pets again.

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Robert Howard's avatar

Amen to this!

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Ernie in River City's avatar

I needed this today. I hear it a lot, but I don’t always believe I’m loved like that. I guess you were way ahead of me, Kiddo.

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Erica's avatar

Wow. This is so beautiful. My sister passed unexpectedly a little over a year ago and I have felt that confirmation from her in the spirit and reading your words feels like a confirmation of truth I really needed. No doubt this will bring such hope and peace to so many. Thank you once again!

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Julie RN's avatar

My most favorite hymn to sing, especially at a Funeral Mass, is “Be Not Afraid.” The refrain is “Be not afraid, I go before you always, Come follow me, and I will give you rest.”

Sometimes, I cannot get the words out. Emotion builds up, and I am overwhelmed by the power of the message.

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Ann Moody's avatar

There’s an anthem by Philip Stopford called”Do Not Be Afraid.” Look it up on YouTube. It chokes me up, too.

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Shirlea's avatar

Another one is No More Night sang by the greatest tenor David Phelps.

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Cynthia Gallaway Ward's avatar

The music I first heard on my Cursillo. It has been what I lean on when I get afraid.

Sean, thank you for sowing blessings. “Be not afraid I go before you always, come follow me and I will give you rest.”

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Carol Boyd's avatar

God is love! Nothing shall separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord. Romans 8:39. Praise God!

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Leslie in NC's avatar

I also imagine my mom greeting & meeting my nephew (her grandson whom she never got to meet) since she died at the young age of 45 and he at 29. I can only imagine the outpouring of love!

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James Yancey's avatar

“This presence was the origin of love”. Sean, you have a way of saying things that meet people where they are. I believe that is called “getting the hay out of the barn and down on the ground so the cows can eat it”.

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Pamela's avatar

Wow this was a powerful one Sean. I needed this first thing this morning. My prayer is that this is exactly how it is. Thanks.

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Julie RN's avatar

Rest assured, Pamela…it most definitely is. 🙏

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